My H's ea "helps him get his past into perspective" (she's an old gf)
Every time I have a fit about her H says "...and just when I was deciding I wanted to be with you..."
I have asked him to leave on 4 separate occasions.
On our anniversary H showed me an email he sent to ow telling her that their "friendship" had perhaps strayed into an "affair of the heart" and that this was causing problems in our marriage. So from here on out h would be giving me access to all communications so I can see that "its all platonic"
I accepted this with reservations. I don't trust H or his letter - but believe he THINKS he conceded something which is interesting in and of itself.
I don't know what one is supposed to do with a spouse who won't leave. Probably a good first step would be to see an attorney so you know what your rights are, and how to protect yourself.
Good luck and God bless.
Me 46 H 56 M 22 yrs S22, D20, Twin Ss18
You teach people how to treat you by what you allow. What you stop. And what you reinforce. ~~~~~~~ A lack of boundaries invites a lack of respect.
