I guess I could add that I struggle with keeping my big girl pants on during these arguments. It is so easy to devolve into mud slinging and name calling; stooping to his level as it were. I really need to focus on not doing that but most of the time I feel like I am cursed with a third, badly-behaved child.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page