Thank you for the feedback. As much as I want to detach. I haven't, maybe in her eyes I haven't cause i've made not contact and stopped begging. We've only been separated for 2 months. Last time I filed right after she wanted a divorce (less than a month of being separated) and then it woke her up and she came around and we reconciled, But our true issues were never addressed because once I had her back we didn't continue to work on the R. I may go another few weeks going dark and see what happens before filing. I do love her very much. She may not have been perfect but she was mine.

I just don't want to be walked on either. she promised to get her own car insurance and file for the D.

Do I ask her about either of these? Or just let it go?

Thank you so much for the responses!


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB