Even though XW is ready, if you're not, you can always ask her to tea later when you are.

Keep taking the high road and taking care of you and you'll get there.

I agree, it seems to me you aren't ready yet.

And that's OK.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss