FY, Continue as you have been. Your w will eventually open up and begin talking about things, but it's not going to be for a while.
I do agree w/rH and T2 about digging for patience and yes, she does care about you or she wouldn't have done your flyer for you.
Keep the focus on you and the TKD. Your w's travels haven't ended and she's still exploring the world of years gone by. When she begins to feel "safe" and near the end of the self exploration, she will open up and begin talking to you. At that time, listen, but do not offer up solutions. Validate her thoughts and be extremely patient as this is where many people push too hard and the mlcer will run right back down into the rabbit hole. You will need to follow her lead and do not ask questions...just let her talk. A large majority of your questions will be answered when the time is right.
BTW, I am not an expert on mlc...just a person who traveled the mlc path many years ago and I do not want to see people make the same mistakes that I did along the way.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
