Metaphorical 2x4's thru this forum have NO chance of getting thru where a REAL 2x4 would be turned to splinters.
MrBond is right in his above post.
And after reading the tripe you've posted, Bruce, I think it's safe to say your W was well founded in her decision to leave you. And her request that you stay put where you were at.
You've not learned anything. In every post where you try to explain your actions and feelings, you still blame your W and her faults. You fail to see the most basic fact required in DB: it's about CHANGING YOURSELF. Everything you've done, you admit to doing with reluctance, and even fault the judgement of your counselor and the court system. You've taken no real responsibility for the situation you're in.
Maybe your best course of action would be to go to Africa after all. At least then your son would have a chance to grow up without someone who's egocentric, misogynistic, self centered, self righteous and controlling. Whether it's cultural or by choice, you are every one of those - and more.
And with that, I give up... You will not have to worry about me commenting on your thread any longer...
