First of all, you can't keep judging your XW's actions based on your expectations. I've read your posts for awhile and you have never gotten rid of the resentment that you have for her. If you keep refusing to accept the way she currently sees things, nothing will be resolved.
You can't FORCE her to do anything. You still want to control her. I understand that your children are being hurt, HOWEVER, unless she's putting them in immediate physical harm, there's nothing she's doing wrong to them. She just doesn't want a R with you and you're not helping by holding onto the resentment you have for her.
"She listens but doesnt take any of my advice"
That's your problem right there. The more you preach to her, the less she is going to listen. You read DB right? That's the number one thing that you DON'T do. But you've been doing it since the beginning which is why she's tuned you out which makes you even madder and the cycle goes round and round again.
YOU have to put a stop to your actions if you want to see any change. She doesn't want someone telling her what to do and the same goes for you.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
