Less lonely, not scared..low on patience

[JBolt]

I’m positive if you go through my previous posts, you could find the bits and pieces to construct this exact conversation, so I don’t know.

With the exception of the working on the marriage part, that is the first I've heard that since....well, ever! I will really try to keep my expectations in check, but this is a positive sign, isn't it? It's so weird, my sitch is so like many on this board (script and some behaviors) and still very different. W seems to realize she is going through this ands its very out of the ordinary for her or anyone else (mentioned that tonight in fact), no drinking or partying AFAIK, and I'm almost positive there is no OM...all that could change tomorrow I suppose, but I still find it strange.

I wanted to also mention something about her IC visits as she told me tonight she wanted to talk with her IC again after putting a hold on the mediation. W is on my insurance and i get a monthly statement showing med visits and how much the insurance paid, etc., so I see each time anyone in the family sees a dr. Anyway, the last three times W contacted me to say she was going to file for D were either on the following day or on the day of an IC visit. She does not go regularly, so I don't think it is a coincidence. I'm morbidly curious to see what happens next time. J.