I'm sorry you are having a bad evening. I've been there with the housecleaning issue and it stinks.
He woulda gone out regardless of the house, this isn't about you. I know it feels that way, but I promise at some point in the future, you will be able to clearly see how nothing you could've done or not done would have prevented this train wreck. He's the conductor right now--try to get out of the way. :-)
Know that you're not alone.
Heather (Lois)
"You know, it's times like these when I realize what a superhero I am." Tony Stark/Iron Man
“Focus on what you can do, then do it with all your heart.” Lois Wilson
