oh, and her cell phone is out in the open now, on the counter...this is new the past few weeks...
THIS is good news!
T^2, you've been through so much! The long months of waiting and suspecting. Now to find out some of these suspicions are true and on the heels of it, W starting to lean on you once again. She is opening up to you. I hear somewhat of "teamwork" between the two of you and her willingness to do what it takes to heal.
I'm so happy for you!
It must seem surreal to you, like the impending D did to me in December followed by desire for reconciliation.
A lot of these sitches here on the boards seem to go on for a long time with no progress and then a crisis and boom...change of feelings!
It reminds me of a chick in an egg trying to get out after it's time just growing imperceptibly inside. Or...of course your tag line fits perfectly here...including the metamorphosis when nothing on the outside makes it look like it's changing on the inside.
So...T^2, keep up the good work! You obviously are a very forgiving person, else W would not be able to trust you! Some of the things you've seen....signs of A's. Ouch! Ouch! And ouch again!
Keep strong, Keep growing, Keep loving, Hugs, rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway
