I appreciate the advice. I am definitely the one who struggles with it!
Especially given the situation in our relationship. I feel myself so badly wanting to bring up R talk, but will absolutely not do that. I don't want to start from the beginning again. Lol


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it