I appreciate the advice. I am definitely the one who struggles with it! Especially given the situation in our relationship. I feel myself so badly wanting to bring up R talk, but will absolutely not do that. I don't want to start from the beginning again. Lol
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it