Hi cbtdad,
When H n I had quiet awkward moments I used them as an opportunity to meditate. This helped because I would be so caught up with my meditation that H would start the conversation. (mostly I was the one who hated the silence, now I'm ok with it ;-)


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017