Bug I do not think you are being unreasonable to ask for a heads up. I understand your feelings though because I still struggle to ask H for those same things (please let me know when you are coming by).

Boundaries. To protect us.

What were emotions at the moment?

TPS
Me: 44 H: 42
M14 T17
S10 D7
10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month
21/04/12 H is 'DONE'
04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010)
July '14 H ends affair
May '15 H moves back home