I am in your exact situation and feel for you. I'm contemplating the same move. W has no money. I have 2 kids from previous marriage. Just trying to protect myself and children. Love her to death but I filed a year ago when she left and the we reconciled. But I'm in the same boat again. I wish you luck. If anyone has any of those crystal balls throw one my way.
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB