Is it too soon to give up hope?

[2ndtimearoundCA]

Thanks sandi. I love my wife very much. We have only been married for 3 years. I can't see waiting 2 to see if she might come back. I am beginning to understand the reality that there is no magic pill. I need to protect my house and the money my parents have put into it. Still the divorce is on hold for now. W doesn't want to pay anything right now. I may look into separation to protect house. We'll see.