that is true. And you can't change the past... but you can appreciate the present and you can chose to focus on it.
He is choosing to hold hands with YOU. He is here now with YOU. That is where your focus should be.
Learning how to see the positives takes practice. I mean how natural is it to be grateful that the sh!t that hit the fan... is now all over your favorite outfit?
But it can be done. And it will become more and more natural.
So work at it. It's not neglecting your fears or invalidating your feelings...
.. it's taking control over them.
((( )))
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
