//If it were not an ethical, why wouldn't he have admitted to it the minute she asked if he had proof// To avoid conflict and because it is none of her business. She doesn't need to know. She was in bed with the OM, she already knows the relationship is inappropriate and that she is lying about it. She doesn't need to see evidence.
Interesting - I actually remember that NPR episode. Didn't his boss use his authority to try and get him arrested and break into his house? He captured the whole thing on audio tape.
//I think it's because he feels icky about having done it.// I am not sure that is how he feels. I know I wouldn't feel that way.
//admitting that I'm not the 100% good guy to your 100% bad guy// I take this for granted. It is the reality of life. I don't know why you would have to admit to it.
//why not get it in the open and admit remorse// Because this isn't about a tape recording. It is about the state of their relationship and about her behaviour. The tape recording is just a distraction. In the short time I have dealt with MLC and WAS, I have quickly learned that they search for distractions to avoid dealing with the real substance of the situation. This is a distraction that is better avoided.
