//I wonder if those of you who know my specific situation would let me know if you think this makes sense.//
No, none of this makes sense to me. Your husband waking up, realizing he has a family and stopping this nonsense is what makes sense. Outside of that, it is all a little rediculous. With what you can control, however, I think a little distance and privacy would be good. A seperate room would give you that.
