lis put it very well......and remember each situation is different...what works for one person may not work at all for another

you know your wife, we do not...and knowing her,you should listen to your gut when it comes to dealing with her

i agree that getting a life is a good thing..that can only help you become stronge

i do agree with lis when she said your wife seems very tuned into you and that she probably knows something is going on

which you do also...

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