"My guess, and it's only that, is that you have had a temper problem in the past and that may be an issue you really need to work on."
I have never been the before, do you think so?,
I have been told the I am too quiet and I need to show more of my frustrations with people. That was one of my troubles with my W, I never yelled or show anger towards her, show told me that it was not right not to want to have a fight.