I would still hold off for now as she seems to be ever so slowly progressing. Be careful not to push her backwards.
I know. Don't worry, I won't be doing/saying anything that will bomb things between us. I've been patient much too long to ruin everything now.
Originally Posted By: VeryGrateful
Just like you hold yourself to high standards on your TKD your W holds her self to high standards on her work. Nothing wrong with that. And to me, that says she wants to do her best work for you. She cares. I think this is a positive small step.
You're right, and I agree, this part is good. The issue is that she is in a place where almost nothing she does is good enough for her. Even compliments are seldom accepted. There's always an excuse of why it wasn't good enough. She's not happy with her.
It's an issue that I'm finding she has to work through for herself.
I hope she does. (already)
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
