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TX Blake, winter here where I live... snow everywhere. Would love to go yard saleing. Guess it will be an early night, work again in the AM... However, friends invited me overnight on Saturday night about 4 hours away. May go to that...will see.

You? What will you do this weekend?

I think weekends suck, too much pressure


M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
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Then my suggestion is to not contact him AT ALL. When he does call you, keep it strictly business and or a few times, tell him that you have to run or that you have an lunch/dinner appointment somewhere. Don't tell him your whole story.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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wfm - Tonight I went to Olive Garden with some friends from work - we had a blast. Had to leave early since I have a sick D13 at home...

Saturday I will be cleaning the mass airflow sensor on my F250. Then I'll be working on a barn at my parents house.

Sunday - I have a b'day party for an 11 year old girl who is the D of a family friend to go to.

I am pretty much unavailable to my W the whole weekend.


Me: 44 ; W: 41
M: 24 ; T: 25
D:23, D:22, D:13
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sounds like a GREAT weekend.... I miss our Olive Garden, first place we eat everytime we are back in the States!

I am "not" available to h... we finished work and he was ordering his pizza (meaning he will be home for the evening), I rushed outta there "as if" I had my own things to do. Tomorrow hopefully will be a busy sales day, then I have a possibility to go 4 hours north with friends, overnight. This may cause an issue for Sunday Sales with h.... so, pondering the thought.

Sunday, am s'posed to be taking D22 out of town with her friend (am now double booked for Sunday AM...this may not work out well for Saturday night now)...will see. By Sunday, I plan on purchasing my copy of DB.


M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
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Maybe our spouses should talk about our boundaries together. We are such fuddy duddies...

Looks like you know what you need. Feels good to state them!! Now it's in their court.


M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D
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