You have to be ready to show him you're willing to move on with or without him. That's the importance of GALing.
Also, I did notice the mind reading discussion going on in your thread. Take my advice - get over it!
My life improved 1000fold when I stopped trying to apply logic and common sense to W's actions. It simply cannot be done, nor can you decipher what they are thinking, so don't try. Work on yourself, GAL and get to a better place - it's imperative for your sanity...
