Need help!!

[Jeack]

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So i decided to take a lil vacation and returned last thursday. My first day of Vacation W called I didn't answer. She then emailed me that we need to move forward with the divorce and who was getting what. So I replied back sounds good have a lawyer right it up and I'll sign it.

I contacted her thursday like she said to do when I got home from florida and she didn't answer. So I emailed her asking her if she filed, She said she did and I should be receiving the papers in a few days she also said she was still trying to get her own car insurance.

It's been almost 2 weeks since she apparently filed and still no papers!! I don't think she filed. And the Sister in law says she knows she's dating someone else.

So i'm at the point that i'm ready to just file. I don't want this to get ugly. So i'm looking for advice. I've meet with our previous marriage counselor and my family doctor who both said our R will never work unless she gets help for herself. Which I know she won't.

So I really need some support. I know in the Last resort technique it says to shock your spouse as tho your moving on. I feel like me filing would be just that. Thoughts?