You mentioned finding your own self-confidence again....what are you doing on that front? Have you read Married Man's Sex Primer? I think it's primary focus is finding that swagger again...worth the read.
I haven't read the book yet but I did look at the reviews last night. I will check it out at the store this weekend. I am trying to gain it back by working out and feeling nicer about my physical self. Which in turn will get my mind in a better place of knowing with or without W, I will be ok. I also know that there is the mental element to it as well and that’s where the reading and the knowing the part I played the problem.
Originally Posted By: Breakdown
What things about yourself are you looking at? What do you want to change? And I'm not talking actions (working out, smoking, etc), I'm talking about the way you think.
Passive aggressiveness. I would like to accept people for who they are. Especially for those close to me since they feel I push my opinion on them (I think I am just sharing my opinion but I think they feel like I am pushing it on them) Get the self-esteem back Insecurity which is part of the self-esteem issue Controlling which usually comes out when I am insecure Judging which I am not sure how it ties in and I never thought I was judgmental but apparently I am according to some of the tests and I can see how people can sometimes see that.
These are some of the things I am looking at and that I don’t like about myself.
Me:36,W:37 M:8, T:13 S:3yo, D:10yo (mine) BD 10/12 and 01/13 DBing since 02/13 W moved out 8/13
