Thanks Bblake1968 and MrBond, I needed that bit of reinsurance.

I have to accept the only thing I can do is to continue to improve on myself and not to allow her to get the best of me.

She was angry last night and when she discovered I was not going to engage with an argument she requested we drop the house price by 10%! I never validated this. Should I? I strongly disagree because its a big chunk of change.

Afterwords she went on the computer (open screen in the living room)and proceeded to chat with 2 guys and kept looking back to see if I was noticing. I never showed any reaction and continued to play with our son. Feels like she is going out of her way to hurt me. If i am writing about it I guess it did bother me but I never let her see that it did.

Continuing my best to lovingly detach...


H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.