"My W did cheat on me, briefly, in 2005. I confronted her then. "

Are you talking about when she cheated on you a few days before you were about to get married? OR was this a different time?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER