Looking for a little advice and support

[cbtdad]

Just doing a little venting, because its not like I can vent to my wife about this.
So today was my S Easter party for school. I took pictures and a video an texted it to W. She has been gone since Sunday morning in Florida looking for a new horse. I've talked to her a couple of times and each time I could tell she was absolutely exhausted and stressed out. Here are my frustrations.
I think this is too long to be away from a 3 year old
- since Wed night he has constantly been saying I want mamma
She didn't even call at all yesterday to talk to him or Tuesday same thing.
It drives me crazy. The fact that she can put all this effort and so much energy into finding a horse, but won't put any effort to try and make this marriage work.
When I sent her the pics and video this morning she responded with "where are y'all?" She knew about this party, but its not even on her mind. My S was so grumpy and didn't even participate in all the activities. It's so hurtful to watch him hurting. This is the one thing that I won't put up with. If we work on reconciling an she won't get her priorities straight then it won't work because I won't want that. It just [censored] because I can't force her to do anything and my 3 year old has to suffer as well. Ugh!!