25,thanks for the response. You say to keep doing what seems to help. My problem is that I am not sure anything is helping.
Remember, it's all about baby steps. I'm over 9 months since BD and I STILL have to remind myself not to look for any giant moves on W's part. W came by last night and sat on the couch and chatted a while. Seems insignicant, but it is in fact a baby step after months and months of W not sitting down in my house at all.
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however she still does not show any type of attraction/love towards me.
Things seem to progress much more slowly in cases where the WAS remains at home. It takes 6+ months of separation before a WAS can start showing interest again, but when there's no S it seems like it takes much longer than that. They just never learn to miss you when they stay home.
