Crimson........Winds of change blowing???

[azguy]

It's great she's looking for resources. Not a book, but a good accessible blog that I've found helpful is

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/marry-divorce-reconcile

In fact, it's how I ended up here. In particular, a good starting point is

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/marr...ft-stop-divorce

which makes some suggestions of other resources. labug is probably right that counseling will be important, rather than just reading.