I know her behavior is giving you hope. Use that hope to stay strong, but I don't think you will make progress unless you two can openly discuss the affair. If she keeps lying you may need to tell her you have proof without stating what it is.
This is all I have to hang on to right now. I know she loves me and wants to be with me, but it is so hard for me knowing that she is lying about the A with OM. I know I sound like a complete wimp, but I am so conflicted right now. I just need time to sort things out.
