Let's talk about what you feel went wrong, and how you can change to become a better person. I think there is a silver lining here, if you want to find it and do it, and that doing so gives you the best chance for everything.
Woukd like to begin with what W has for complaints,as these faults must be the reason for her wanting D....
My bad moods affect the whole family - i agree I have little patience with the children - i agree I sometimes speak to her and children with little respect - i agree I am a fairly negative person sometimes - i agree We have had lots of arguments - i agree
W has also mentioned that i am ego. In the meaning that when i am depressed, in a bad mood., or have little patience, then it is more important for me to project this outwardly, instead of letting it go and not affecting the family.
W says i have had many chances to change this behaviour, but now shes had enough. She has been let down with false promises of change too many times. She has no respect for me anymore, feels like sometimes i am like a third child that she needs she needs to teach how to behave or act.
I took her love for granted, and didnt take her pleas for change seriously.
Have read the hundraåringen book, very entertaining!
Have fun with your S. Be the best father you can be...
M:39, W:35 T:12, M:3 (4y 2013.02.18) D:9 S:5 2 Dogs W says she wants D : 2013.01.18