No it doesn't. This is usually at the beginning of the bomb drop. You've been at this for 9 years. AND one of the biggest issues in your M was abandonment.
Your W has told you time and time again that she wants a man who will fight back. As well as act more "manly". That is what you need to do. Quite frankly, you're lucky your W hasn't cheated on you.
I'm sure you were a good father. I was more interested as to how you RELATED to your children and your W. In all those years, you only sent one telegram and a few messages here and there?
The things is that you have to strip down your problems to the bare minimum to see how to build them back up.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.