Running out of steam

[mrtwopointfour]

Hi All, just a question to those that have been and done this.

When do you know if you have detached?

I don't at the moment know if I have naturally started to detach or am in denial. I feel less worried about what W is up to and who she is talking to (maybe as she is at home). I feel quite at ease around W, and some of the changes I have made are starting to come as second nature. I don't for any minute believe that this is how its going to be, but feel a little uneasy that I am at this point this quickly. W is taking kids for w/e to give me a rest. Atmosphere seems more friend based. W more settled, and possibly cake eating, but no mention of D for while. Sure that change over next day or so.

Why do we feel uneasy when things feel better? I think its because I am worried I am going to let my guard down.