New to all this!

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Still reading and absorbing DR. I can see its something to be read and re-read frequently for both advice and encouragement.

H has been cranky for the past couple of days, short tempered about work and generally grumpy. Usually I would take it all to heart and worry about it and how to change things but I've told myself its just the way he is feeling, there isn't anything I can do about it and he will get over it himself. I sat with him at the table while he grumbled and moaned and paid attention to what he was saying but didn't do much else.

I'm off out to dinner with a couple of girlfriends tonight. I casually informed H that I would be out tonight and refrained from asking if it was OK with him! Off to get myself prettied up for the evening