Thanks for your input. I have thought about those issues at length as things have seemingly begun to thaw a bit. I do not want to be exploited for a roof and other provisions - but as our discussions deepen on the topic, I am slowly starting to believe that it may not be the case. Notwithstanding, I am trying to temper my enthusiasm with a dose of caution and reality.
Tonight she asked if I knew of any books or other resources to help in the rebuilding process. Does anyone know of any? I don't think MWD has a book strictly on this topic, does she?