PoN,
I am always thankful for your words of advice on my thread, but don't often feel as though I have any great wisdom for you.

A couple questions though:
DO you ever feel as though things might slide back apart w your W?
Do you see her as fully invested in restoring or renewing her efforts into your M?
There wasn't ever OP for her or you, right??? That seems to be a HUGE factor in many of our situations and until/unless that runs its course (the A) we (the LBS) are in limbo, at least to the degree we choose to be.


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.