Of course there is sadness--you've loved him for years. That doesn't end b/c the M is ending. You will carry a part of him and your happy times with him in your heart the rest of your life. The pain and sadness will subside (as everyone keeps telling me).

I'm glad the mediator sounds like a good option for you. I hope that works out well for many reasons, including going a more peaceful route (not to mention the time, energy and expense it will save you).

I'm thinking about you often and look forward to the day we meet in person! Thanks for finding my new thread! wink


M- 18 T-21
S-14,11 & 10
BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA)
H moved out 11-3-2012
10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life.
11-25-13 Jointly filed.