My wife is having affair with a mutual friend

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TBH, I am shocked and amazed by some of the advice given to you.

First, GAL? I am not sure working on your golf game is really going to help much right now.

Stop snooping? He KNEW she was having an A and he did the reasonable thing by obtaining evidence of that A.

Now I know it will suck, but yes you do need to confront her. You do need to show your proof.

You will not "drive her into the arms of OM." SHE IS ALREADY THERE!!!.

Stay calm, act with mind not heart. You can choose her, you can choose to walk the long and tough path back to reconciliation. If you do, I commend you and honestly respect it. But you cannot force her to do the same. What you can do is have her make that same decision. Trust me on this, what she decides will be tough and painful either way, so as much as possible, lose the fear.

No person should have to deal with this, and life is too short.

Good luck sir, I wish the best for you.

Peace.