The second after we put our little girl to bed my wife went downstairs to the guest bedroom and shut the door...........it was 7:30pm.

My wife is having the affair to escape her responsibilities and obligations. She is a lawyer and being a mom is tough for her. As a family we had planned to sell the house last year and travel the world- unfortunately nobody is buying houses so our plan was put on ice.

This week she was out of the house Sunday and Monday night, home Tuesday,out wedensday and back again tonight. I've asked her nothing about her whereabouts but is this the time to set boundaries? Or should I be happy that I know where she is and that she is safe

I am detaching..........it's hurting a little less each day

ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13