Hello all. Have not posted to my thread in a long, long time. Things were up-no reason to post, then things were down-didn't feel like posting. Anyway, I seem to have a bit firmer grasp now. current situ--we had slid back toward where we were about a year ago. This is not how I would like things to be, but all I can control is me.

My plan for now--1) I am going nowhere-staying right here. Her staying or leaving is her choice-always has been, though I may not have recognized that at times. 2) I will continue with my "self-improvement" to try to become a better person to all those around me (includes W), though I will not let then control my life. 3) I will become active on "my" projects, those that are fun for me, ie: rebuilding my 67 Fairlane and other 'shop' projects. 4) I will continue with coursework for professional improvement.

My life has been in limbo, I need to turn over the leaf.

Harv