We are all going OK here - although there seems to be some physical consequences of the drama of the Court appearance/ reappearance of stbx to collect the kids from school. He did this once - the day after the court fiasco - and then disappeared again (i.e. no texts/calls to them).
I have been really, really tired (but hitting all my deadlines at work) and D17 has been angry and aggressive. S14 has been vomiting intermittently.
Great learning opportunity for me - not to react to the kids or get overly anxious, but just accept things for what they are and try for serenity and understanding.
