Still treading water

[25yearsmlc]

FY, JP, PON, AS, SA thank you all.

Detaching is a bit(h when you are living together and sleeping together.

PON, I promise I am listening to you about not worrying about my W. I actually feel I have gotten better at this but obviously I have a long way to go. I am away from her 10 times more than prior to BD. I am giving her space.

okay so you are doing some DB stuff here^^^


Just recently though she has been much happier and she wants to talk more. She totally initiated ML 2 nights ago. I was asleep when she came to bed. She changes clothes in front of me. She didnt do this for the longest time post BD. I still think my W is hotter than he//. It still gets me going to see her like that.


to me, this^^ means your DBing was WORKING...what am I missing?

I say all of this just to try to point out what I am fighting against to try to detach.

????

I do try to avoid her changing clothes but at times we are talking when she starts to change and it would just be rude to walk out.

FY, you are correct. What else am I going to do? The other options do not appeal to me at all.

why not GAL, and keep doing what seems to help?


ps

I really mean it about GAL. You sound way too dependent on her and GAL helps...for real.