I just found out some good new about my job, I would love to share with my wife, (my love), I want to reach out to her, but I know I need to let her be. Would it be such a bad thing to send her flowers.
Did she clean out the account or take half of it? If she took more than half (which I would have suggested YOU do if I were your L, and put in a safe place with open viewing for the court to show you just protected it)
if she took it all, that WILL be noted by the court and mediator.
As for sending her flowers, WHY? WHY??
if you got a raise, it'll mean she can get more money and won't feel guilty at all about the money.
OR do you think she'd be more attracted to you now? Like she'd change her mind?
I mean, honestly I don't get your goal with the flowers and your own amnesia of what transpired right before with the bank. And don't remind her that she can take all the money with impunity. That's not correct or accurate anyhow.
It WILL be noted and counted against what she gets later...
"The heart follows where the head leads, when we let it." So get your head on straight and figure out what you want and then follow suit.
You sound so reactive...it's not healthy for you.
take a breath. Also, what are your 180s? And any GAL? We hammer GAL a lot here...b/c we know it works. I would love to hear about what is NEW and fun in YOUR life.
How about putting some focus on that?
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