Thanks so much for your support. I don't post to other people much. Mostly because I don't feel, in my state of mind, I have anything usefull to add.
Quote: I mentioned the hottub and was immediately told that I had missed my chance.
I can tell you from a womans POV, this was your W being extreamly hurt. Don't think of it as you being a doormat. Think of it as your W reaching out to you the only way she can. When she can.
You are doing the best that you can, but SO IS SHE.
I have trouble with getting the best combination as well. DOn't beat yourself up over it, I agree with the last post. Appoligise and move on. Saying you are sorry really does help. Even if they do not acknowledge it at the time, she will remember that.
