We talked to the therapist today. Wife still seems adamant about a 3 month separation. After the hour long session, it seems her biggest issues concern a lack of romanticism (I think this is caused by her constantly reading erotic novels) and communication. I said, how can we improve in these 2 areas if you want to live apart for 3months? She didn't have a good answer, but told the therapist she wanted the separation to see if she'd miss me during that time. Her thinking is, " If you let something go and it comes back, it was meant to be." I don't want the separation and feel she should leave the house, even though my parents also live in town and it would be a lot easier for me to leave. Any thoughts or advice?
