Great input, AS! I guess I do need to get back to the basics and remember that my W is still very much a WAS. I need to think and act accordingly.
Me too, my most recent thread is evidence that I struggle with this too! In my case I have to remember to drop those darned expectations!!
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It basically said, that the WAS doesn't want any atteraction to the LBS, so just pull back and wait. The WAS has to find that attraction themselves. You can't really make it happen. At least that is what I took from it, but perhaps I missed something as well. AS, do you care to elaborate?
Exactly, we can be Fabio and our WAS is going to see Ernest Borgnine. But if we make ourselves look better for US instead of the WAS, then it does wonders for our confidence, self-esteem and PMA and those things more than the physical attraction are what might get the WAS's attention.
