Great input, AS! I guess I do need to get back to the basics and remember that my W is still very much a WAS. I need to think and act accordingly.
Waitingformagic, I think that reply was directed at a previous post on this thread, that AS made. It basically said, that the WAS doesn't want any atteraction to the LBS, so just pull back and wait. The WAS has to find that attraction themselves. You can't really make it happen. At least that is what I took from it, but perhaps I missed something as well. AS, do you care to elaborate?