Crimson, I meant to PM you but I'm still on moderation. Tell me, did you every go through an extended period of NC / detachment from your ex? I went through some of your previous posts and I didn't see where you did. I suppose it would have been LC because if your S. If you did, when did you do it (before or after D)? And, how would you rate the impact of the LC on how she felt about you & the R?
I have not been good at going LC. My ex loves to keep our R friendly despite her being in a 8 mo R with her BF.
Me: 48 EW: 40 D8, D12 Married 13 wonderful years D in Apr-12