sorry JP yes you are confusing me very badly by hijacking threads. Stay to the course man.
Grizz Bond once said to me "you allow yourself to walk on eggshells" "go live life"
I use to worry every word that came out of my mouth or every action I did would effect the outcome of my M. Terrible way to live life. It wasn't until I put on a spreadsheet my future life with my kids and without her I started to change the dynamics of the marriage. This is when I told her I wasn't moving out. I built a hockey rink. I went to acoa. I booked a trip to EE in Philly. I fired yet another retard counselor telling me to D my W. (fyi, 5 counselors fired, they are useless unless they are truly solution or church based)
You allow yourself to walk on eggshells. YOU dictate this not her
